Wrestling can be a sport filled with brutality, aggression, superior strength, and numerous other characteristics that are typically associated with males. All of this was held true before 16-year old Heaven Fitch came onto the scene, and changed the stereotypical wrestler forever.

She is a young lady who is fearless, and she has proven time and time again that she isn’t afraid to hang with the stronger males. She may only be a high school student, but she is looking like she could revolutionize the sport of wrestling. She’s made international headlines since she became the first girl to win the North Carolina High School Wrestling State Championship on February 22 of this year, putting focus on the neglected sport of women’s wrestling.

We have certainly been impressed with what Heaven Fitch has demonstrated so far in her young career, and we’re sure that you will be too after reading through this article.

Who is Heaven Fitch?

Heaven Fitch is a young high-school student from North Carolina, and she is a girl with big dreams for both herself and her career. Recently Heaven made history by destroying a field of boys on her way to winning the North Carolina State Championships for wrestling, something that has never before been achieved by a female wrestler.

Fitch currently wrestles in the 106-pound division, but when she’s constantly going up against supposedly stronger opposition, the challenge is twice as hard. As the story goes, Fitch told her parents when she was just 6 years old that she wanted to be a wrestler. She was inspired by her older brothers, and this inspiration has led her to become one of the most exciting prospects in wrestling for many years.

She may still be in high-school, but the future certainly looks bright for this young lady and her quest for great wrestling achievements.

Female wrestlers still lack opportunities

To understand the media attention around Heaven Fitch we need to understand Women’s wrestling. To many people, women’s wrestling equals the entertainment that we see on tv with shows like Professional Wrestling but the truth is far from it. Women’s wrestling has been growing at a 10% rate the last years and is considered one of the fastest growing sports. Still, less than 17,000 girls and women participate in the sport. Despite the low numbers, one can find odds on women’s wrestling events together with the men’s competitions, on all major sports betting sites like Unibet, bet365 and others found on platforms like the Gamblersbet.com. Since 2004, women’s wrestling is also part of the Olympic Games with competitors from more than 100 countries. Japan, where female wrestling is well developed, has won 11 gold medals since 2004.

Back to the US, many high schools have girl wrestling but with a 85% drop off between high school and college level, the sport has struggled with survival. As more high schools and colleges have started to allow men and women to compete against each other, the number of female high school wrestlers has increased each year. Today, about 21,000 students participate in girls wrestling across 18 states and there are better opportunities for women to continue with professional training but the sport is far from gender equality. The hashtag #WrestleTheGap on Twitter is one of the most recent initiatives to raise awareness to women’s wrestling and the success by Heaven Fitch is exactly what the sports need. Making it easier for women to pursue a career as a professional wrestler will ultimately lead to more professional wrestlers.

Men against female wrestlers

Both in the US and internationally, wrestling is one of the few sports where men and women can compete against each other and intergender wrestling is growing in popularity. Wrestling is a sport where competitors battle each other one on one, and they use various martial art methods when they are competing. Wrestling is much less violent than other combat sports however such as boxing or UFC, for this sport is much more focused on precision and technique rather than power or violence. Some fighters may prefer to go for ground grapples, and others may go for submission moves such as those that you may see in MMA. As technique is more important than body size, wrestling has become increasingly popular as an intergender sport.

Why is Heaven Fitch changing the face of wrestling?

We’ve already established that Heaven Fitch has begun removing the stereotypes that males are stronger than females, or that females shouldn’t take part in combat sports. She’s quite literally obliterating many pre-determined attitudes surrounding wrestling, and after her success at the State Championships, the waves continue to power through the wrestling world.

But how exactly is this young lady changing the way that the sport is seen, and how it operates in general?

1. Displaying women and men as equals

It’s been a long-standing debate in sport that women shouldn’t get paid the same as men, that they don’t bring in the same crowds, that they aren’t as capable, etc. Clearly, Heaven is showing to the world that this is an attitude that is not only offensive, but it is an attitude that is being proven to be wrong time and time again.

2. Proving that unisex tournaments are a feasible inclusion going forward

Usually, the idea of women competing against men in sport has been laughed at, and just simply an idea that is refused to be entertained by the bodies that be. However, Heaven Fitch has just shown that there is a place for unisex sport to take place. Although she may have achieved this incredible feat at the junior level, it will be interesting to see whether this sparks debate for the seniors too.

3. Motivating other female wrestlers to come forward

Let’s not dance around the fact that wrestling is still seen as a male sport, as are many combat sporting events. Fitch has now shown that if you have a passion for wrestling or any other contact sport for that matter, you should just go ahead and strive for your dreams.

What does this mean for the sport of wrestling?

We have a feeling that the governing bodies from all over the globe will have taken note of Fitch’s achievements. More importantly, it attracts attention to the sport which can lead to more opportunities for female wrestlers that want to become full time professional athletes. This could mean major shakeups at both the junior and senior levels, and it could have even lit the match for many more professional women’s events to be held.

Whether this actually happens or not, we will all have to wait and see.

If you are a professional wrestler that often takes bookings up and down the country, driving long hours between shows, that leaves you with very little time to find that special someone in your life. Locker rooms, especially male ones, can be full of jacked and testosterone-fuelled guys that jump from woman to woman depending on their fancy that evening.

Ask anyone who has laced up a pair of boots and they will tell you that maintaining a love life and a career as a professional wrestler is incredibly difficult. That is why so many ends up meeting their partners in the business – after all, just look at the number of real-life couples there are in the WWE. On the independent circuit, however, things are a little bit different and instead of being put up in five-star hotels each night, performers may do with sleeping in cramped cars or sleeping on floors. Not exactly the best environment to meet the love of your life.

Prioritize

If you are serious about finding love, you will have to consider what your priorities are. While there are some instances where long-distance relationships work, more often than not they don’t, sadly. Consider cutting back on the list of dates you are booked in to allow more time for you and your man or woman. While this may affect how much money you are earning initially, the days off won’t only serve to allow love to blossom, but will also help your body to recover from niggling injuries that wrestlers so often perform through.

Keep the Ego Away

Many wrestlers end up living the gimmick, whereby the character they portray in the ring and who they really are outside of it starts to become one and the same. Ric Flair is a famous example of this – while he has enjoyed a long and distinguished career having donned a playboy lifestyle, outside of it he has gone through no less than four divorces. Ego simply will not get you very far in the long run.

Be Flexible and Make Compromises

This relates back to the first point about prioritization, but you have to be flexible and willing to make compromises to make love work. If you don’t and you leave your romantic interest feeling as though they are second best to your career, the chances are that they will look for someone that will put them first. Of course, for them to be able to date a wrestler, there has to be a level of understanding on their part, too, but the relationship will only work if both of you can meet in the middle. Wrestling is a short career, so don’t allow it to ruin something that could be with you for the rest of your life.

Have an Active Social Media Presence

In 2020, every professional wrestler should have an active social media presence if not just to sell their matches and angles. However, it is also a fantastic means of engaging with fans that, you never know, might just turn into something more. Be careful here, though, because many fans will only be attracted to your character instead of you, so don’t rush into anything. Take the time to get to know the person and, more importantly, for them to get to know you.

Use Dating Sites

On the subject of getting to know someone on a more personable level, as well as social media you should try signing up for dating sites. The results of the research, conducted by the dating site iwantu.com, show that a lot of professional sportsmen find their partners online.

Trust Your Relationship

Finally, both you and your partner will need to have a lot of trust in each other to make things work. It can be easy to become paranoid when you spend so much time apart, particularly when one (or even both) is performing and spending so much time in such an intense environment with a fit and athletic performers. Make sure to keep in regular contact, just so as the other person knows you are thinking about them.